“Do you understand
That if enough trauma happens on any level of the being
You can’t just get over it
Anymore than you can if you get in a high speed car crash.
If somebody got in a high speed car crash at 70 miles an hour
And they’re like broken
And I walk up to them on the street
And I say just get over it
Do you realize how cruel that would be?
We understand the cruelty on a physical level
Where is the understanding of that on an emotional level.
It’s not possible.”

With rare exceptions that’s not how it works.